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Wednesday, April 25, 2007

True Facts abt Complusive liars "(Edited )

Compulsive Liars often feel the need to lie about almost anything. They often lie about little things such as what they ate for lunch and they also lie about big important things. When compulsive liars lie it becomes a very bad habit. It is very difficult to break and it almost feels like that they can not stop lying due to it being almost automatic. It almost becomes so automatic within themselves that lying becomes a part of them. They often can lie and sound very convincing.

People who are compulsive liars often lie so much that it is almost like a script. Once an individual memorizes a series of scripts that are lies then they can say the scripts sounding very convincing to other individuals. At times there is flaws in the individual stories that they lie about or other lies that they tell. Compulsive liars often have big stories in order to cover up a certain area of their past which the person is afraid to let other people know. They are often afraid of being judged. Compulsive liars often have extreme self esteem issues and often lie to portray themselves as someone else that they aren't really.

Compulsive liars will often stop lying and come clean about the truth when they are caught. The lies that compulsive liars do tell will eventually catch up to them. People around them will begin to notice gaps in their stories and the other lies that they tell people. Compulsive liars can only be so convincing only so long until someone notices that it is mostly lies. Compulsive liars will often tell another story full of lies if they don't want the truth to be known when they are caught in other lies.

One thing to remember about compulsive liars is you often can not tell the difference between a truth and lie. After so many stories have been told and so many lies that have been told then it is difficult to people around them to figure out exactly which is false and which is true. People can not always tell lies about everything about themselves since it is impossible to hide everything about themselves completely. Compulsive liars can not always lie about everything little thing about themselves or other things.

When a person stops being a compulsive liar is usually when they can no longer handle the guilt anymore. Compulsive liars realize when they have gotten themselves in too deep with the many lies that they have told in the past. Compulsive liars often lie to the family and friends. Compulsive liars will also lie to the person that they love romantically. Compulsive liars most of time after too much damage has been done then he or she will usually come clean out about the truth in rare cases when they deeply care about an individual that he or she loves romantically enough to marry. Be careful with some compulsive liars since some of them don't have any guilt about the lies. Some of them never come clean about the truth unless they reach a point of where they want to stop lying.

AND IM WITH ONE.

EDIT--- IM GLAD IM NOT WITH ONE !!

5 Comments:

Blogger GRS86 said...

Cool post. I am guessing you are a psychology student. But, there are a few points I disagree with you.

"Compulsive liars will often stop lying and come clean about the truth when they are caught." - Not all, in fact mostly not. He will find one more lie to cover it, or just say change topic, etc, but never reveal the truth.

And I don't think they fell guilty about it. Or, I am yet to see one. I have interacted with quite a few who are compulsive liars ( three come to my mind now - that is a large number right? )

I am not sure if I am 'okay' with their company, I only have pity for them.

11:41 PM  
Blogger forbidden.angel said...

Thanks guthi..I so agree with you..compulsive liars come up wit more lies to cover the truth up ! I guess i have to edit all over again ! I was so wrong..so wrong..

2:23 PM  
Blogger GRS86 said...

Hey f.a, It was just my opinion, do not edit your post, they are your observations when you wrote it. Period. There is no authority here.

11:38 AM  
Blogger preetham said...

Its not that tough to know whther a person lied are not.Especially,when its a guy its very easy to find out.

tougher way :people tend to blink more when they lie

easier way:make a note of things that dint sound convincing and discuss the minor details after a week, mind you,he should be taken by surprise,hell get caught on the wrong foot.

most of the time people tend to forget the minor details when they lie.And guys are too lazy to remember waht they lied about most of the time.Ive tried it works .

11:52 PM  
Blogger preetham said...

some compulsive liars can be quite hillarious and possess amazing creativity ...

There was this guy called s.s.c(chaitanya).hes a pheku.Cold blooded pheku(hehe).He would phekofy in the most conspicuous
manner possible.ok.one can be sure that he lying if his/her IQ IS ANYTHING MORE THAN ZERO hehe.His complexion is pitch black almost tar colour ok.One can hardly make out a difference between his hair and face.so the story goes like this............
He once happened to tell his friend naveen that he looked fair when he was a kid hehe. Then this naveen fellow politely enquired about the so called HADSA.

Ssc was going to LONDON by an airindia flight.Ok.Due to traffic jam(yes thats the way he put it) LONDON airport was full .So they couldnt land then.So the pilot took a turn towards newyork(dont be startled heheh youve heard correctly) in the mean while.So because of this long journey he opened the window (right in the aeroplane he opened the window) any guesses why..............cos he was feeling sultry hahahaha.(wait it gets more interesting now)
Statue of liberty caught his eye ok.so he bent out of the window to have a closer look.suddenly the flames from the torch(statue of liberty's torch) roared high and caught his face and he got burnt and became dark .
..................................
........we were spell bound,flabbergasted,shell shocked for MOMENT just like you and then burst into laughter. whenever we recollect the story we laughed our guts out.how can he come up wiht something like that .his freind naveen came to us with a heavy heart and said,

why ,how,......uh do i look that stupid karke papam poor guy couldnt beleive what he just heard.Even if i sit and try to make up a story, i can never come up with some thing as atrocious as that.I liked his creativity though.And then we got hold of a love letter that was supposedly written by some girl addressing this guy .....that was a knock out.too bad i dont remember it.But i remember that she mentioned about naveen too ahahahahahaha

5:46 PM  

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